Everything on Earth consists of energy, this is scientifically proven. Every energy vibrates on a certain frequency and certain energies vibrate on a higher or lower frequency. Flowers, incense and candle light are the 3 things that vibrate on the highest frequency. Those are the things that stand closest to the vibration frequency of the Hereafter. In other words: flowers, incense and candle light bring you to the doorstep of Heaven, through their energy. And these are exactly those 3 things that we also use in farewell rituals for our deceased. Over the years the meaning of this got lost. When someone would like a contact with their beloved deceased and offers a flower as tribute, I, as a medium, can make contact more swiftly than without a flower. Then why do I work with flowers rather than with incense or candle light? That’s pure personal preference, and also for practical reasons.
So people who think that a flower séance equals the ‘summoning of ghosts’, I have to disagree with. We offer the flower and the deceased is free to respond, or not. Summoning means that we would oblige them to be present and this is never a good and safe choice.
Although I have to admit that in my 28 years’ experience with séances, I’ve only had one refusal, and with very good reason (if you’d like to know this story, read my book From my toes to my purple hair). The deceased entities are all too often very excited to be able to have their say :).